You
see the problem is there’s this strange phenomenon of people liking mysteries
and not wanting them explained.
In
the world of mental health it often appears that someone in distress, does not
want, nor responds to, either explicit explanation of their difficulties, or to
training in techniques to relieve them. It’s even got to the point in our
individualistic society where many will argue that there are no universal ways
of understanding or helping - apart from the mysterious ‘love conquers all’!
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The wilful ignorance of those who see in others an inborn talent often drives those with such supposed abilities to distraction. The spectator at a golf tournament who said to Arnold Palmer - after he’d made a great shot - how lucky he was to have such a talent, got the reply: ‘Yes, it’s crazy, the more I practice the luckier I get! In traditional craftsmanship, ten thousand hours is the ‘rule of thumb’ for mastering a complex skill set - the point at which practice, becomes ‘seamless’ and the outsider cannot see ‘how it’s done’.
In
the context of mental health, explanation leading to instruction, demonstration
and practice meets additional resistance because the very subject is the
inadequacy of early emotional learning from parents, other adults, siblings and
peers. A large part of emotional learning is of course all about sexual
intimacy, and here the Holmes analogy is useful again.
Dr
Watson a believer in the mystery of love, as much as non-explainable 'genius', offers
us this in, A Scandal in Bohemia: 'It
was not that he felt any emotion akin to love for Irene Adler. All emotions,
and that one in particular, were abhorrent to his cold, precise but reasonable
balanced mind, but as a lover he would have put himself in a false position. He
never spoke of the softer passions, save with a gibe and a sneer. They were
admirable things for the observer - excellent for drawing a veil from men's
motives and passions.'
Now
we know that such a lack of emotion would have been impossible - modern opinion divides two ways; either towards some effortful suppression or towards an autistic spectrum, even the sociopathic! It doesn't occur to Watson that Holmes might have applied the
same methods to learning about sex and love as he did to everything else. If
that were true, then his pursuit of excellence would have led to his rejection
by almost all in Victorian society. (It is perhaps worth remembering that it is only points of similarity between people which
attract.)
(All
of the above refers to the character of Sherlock Holmes originally offered us
by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle.)
It is nice to see that some of the themes above have been highlighted by Elementary, the contemporary take on Holmes from CBS.
HOLMES: It has its costs.
WATSON: What does?
HOLMES: Learning to see the puzzle in everything. They’re everywhere, once you start looking it’s impossible to stop. It just so happens that people and all the deceits and delusions which inform everything they do, tend to be the most fascinating puzzle of all. Of course they don’t always appreciate being seen as such.
WATSON: Seems like a lonely way to live.
HOLMES: As I said it has its costs.
HOLMES:
..the things that I do, the things that you care about, you think I do
them because I’m a good person, I do them because it would hurt too much not
to.
AGATHA: Because you are a good person.
HOLMES: No, it hurts Agatha. All of this, everything I see, everything I hear, touch and smell. The conclusions I’m able to draw, the things that are revealed to me, the ugliness. My work focuses me, it helps. You say I am using my gifts, I say I am just treating them…
(Elementary, created by Robert Doherty for CBS.)
It is nice to see that some of the themes above have been highlighted by Elementary, the contemporary take on Holmes from CBS.
HOLMES: It has its costs.
WATSON: What does?
HOLMES: Learning to see the puzzle in everything. They’re everywhere, once you start looking it’s impossible to stop. It just so happens that people and all the deceits and delusions which inform everything they do, tend to be the most fascinating puzzle of all. Of course they don’t always appreciate being seen as such.
WATSON: Seems like a lonely way to live.
HOLMES: As I said it has its costs.
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(photo by Nick Hewling) |
AGATHA: Because you are a good person.
HOLMES: No, it hurts Agatha. All of this, everything I see, everything I hear, touch and smell. The conclusions I’m able to draw, the things that are revealed to me, the ugliness. My work focuses me, it helps. You say I am using my gifts, I say I am just treating them…
(Elementary, created by Robert Doherty for CBS.)
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